Thank you all very much for the useful advice. I am pretty much sold on the TR. It looks like the Griso sale may take a week or two, the title is still in TX. I foolishly registered it here in NC a while back and the title is in transit to TX. That means it will be sent to TX, then back to NC to me before I can sell the bike.
The good news is that this pause in action will give me time to ride a f700GS and the F800GS, though I am beginning to think that my seat of the pants-o-meter was right about the TR650. It will definitely be a blast on all things but long trips, and then it will probably as comfy or more so than the Griso or [the] Speed Triple [I had before the Guzzi]. I have honestly never owned a bike that was "comfortable" after 300 miles.
As for my other main concern, I have never had ABS, I just thought on a bike this light it might be a benefit. I was defintely able to get the ABS to engage a few times on the test ride, though admittedly I was trying to. I will ride a couple of BMWs in the next week, but I the more I look at the numbers the more I struggle with legitimizing either BMW. I will ride them, but they will have to feel like magic carpets to sway me at this point.
So long as my two buyers don't both fall through I should be able to sell the Griso and get into a TR that is well equipped for little/nothing out of pocket--which is pretty exciting and starting to make more sense by the minute. I love the Griso, but it is good for looking at, riding in the twisties, and short straight aways (100 miles or less with my long legs).
I just think the TR is probably going to be the winner--MANY folks seem to have traded BMW singles and twins to get the Husky, that can't be a coincidence. I just have to ride the BMW bikes to put my mind at ease so that if/when the TR gives me a sore bum or other issue I can look at all the benefits I experienced first hand test riding and feel like I still came up with the right bike.
MAN I am ready to get out in the woods. I plan to ride all over the Appalachians and the East Coast during the month of May one way or the other.
Next big questions are as follows: Accessories!
Pannier options--factory seems to be unavailable. But I think they look sweet! Or should I just get a Giant Loop and be done? I like the option to lock my luggage, but at a third the price I am to any waterproof options. My Cortech bags leak like canvas.
Skid Plate--I think the Ricochet has the bang for the buck? Any reason to look elsewhere, is the stocker no good?
Bark Busters--The Touratech with spoiler look pretty sick... Expensive, but beautiful on the bike. If there are cheaper options that have good looks please make a recommendation.
Bigger wind screen--I have had the National cycle and DX and wasn't super impressed, but I want something about that size. Any leads on touring options?
Heated grips--Never had 'em, but they seem to be a popular accessory here. What brand do you guys like?
Crash Bars--Is the altrider option the only game in town? I am not an experienced dirt rider and think that crashbars are a must.
Center Stand-- Hepco Becker seems to offer one, but no images seem to be out there. I worry a bit about getting a skid plate and then having fitment issues with a center stand. This is an item I might wait on, but which would be very nice to have.
I estimate that all of that will be $800-$1500 extra depending on the final combo/brands, but should turn the TR into a do-it-all machina! Hoping to buy much of this from the dealer and get a good discount... That is part of why I am trying to get a list together of brands and best options. We shall see.
What other add-ons do you current owners consider must-haves? Probably should start another thread... but I am not sure I am ready to be "that thread starting guy" on this forum.
Thanks again for all of the great advice.